Wednesday, 25 February 2015

Is love inevitable?

Is love inevitable?


So what is love? Love is one of the greatest emotions of all time. Love is the feeling that one gets inside that is uncontrollable, it is a bonding that one can have with another person. It can be unconditional and also blinding.

I firmly believe that love is both within and without our own control, based on events and our reactions. If we react positively to the actions of the other, then it is our choice. But that is based solely upon how you were raised, and how you chose to accept the way you were raised. The way you see the world controls how you feel about it. Some people hate the mushy, lovey-dovey kind of relationships, and will likely not fall in love with someone of that genre of love. Some people love the love-hate relationships, and would rather be with someone who feels the same way. Of course, this isn't always true. Opposites do sometimes attract.

I Strongly believe that fate is never set in stone. We determine our own destiny. That includes who we love and how we react. Love isn't some mystical thing; it is, simply put, the reaction to the actions of others. But, of course, this makes it sound... not as appealing. Don't get me wrong: love is a wonderful thing. There is no other feeling like it! But it is not a magical thing that is beyond the control of the one who wields it. People say that love makes them do crazy things. In a way, that's true. But it is always within the control of the person in love.